Heart Menders Throughout the Years

Welcome to our Heart Menders page, where we celebrate the extraordinary people who have been the heartbeat of Richstone Family Center over the last 50 years. From tireless volunteers to passionate advocates, they have helped shape our mission, guide our growth, and have been a driving force in our efforts to heal and empower communities.

R. Wyman Sanders, M.D.

Visionary; identified the need for counseling for abused children and families, founded Richstone Family Center

In 1974 when pediatricians Dr. R. Wyman Sanders and Dr. James Apthorp, were invited to meet with the parents in a Parents Anonymous (PA) group they identified a need. No therapy was being provided to the children who were victims of abuse. Dr. Sanders approached Bea Richstone and asked for help. She provided $6,000 seed money. The Richstone Family Center, named in her honor, was established with the mission of providing counseling for children and their families in a holistic approach. 

By mid 1980 Dr. Sanders was faced with the upcoming end of the government funding. Richstone sought to transition its model and to seek private funding from organizations, foundations, corporations, and individuals.  With no established donor base, it was a difficult task and they searched for a new Executive Director. 

Dorothy Courtney spotted the classified ad in the paper. While she had volunteered with organizations that addressed domestic violence and child abuse, she had no direct experience managing a non-profit. At the interview, Board President Dr. Sanders asked why Richstone should hire her. Dorothy, knowing the challenges, replied “Because you need me.” Dr. Sanders and the Board took a chance that paid off for Richstone and its clients.  

Wyman continued to serve on the Richstone Board, including as President for 6 years and as a dedicated supporter until his recent death on March 26, 2023. As his family wrote in his obituary “…he was most proud of his work with The Richstone Family Center – a place helping families to be resilient, safe, and to grow and thrive.”

Bea Richstone

Founder; provided original seed money to create The Richstone Family Center

In 1974 when pediatricians Dr. R. Wyman Sanders and Dr. James Apthorp, were invited to meet with the parents in a Parents Anonymous (PA) group they identified a need. No therapy was being provided to the children who were victims of abuse. Dr. Sanders approached Bea Richstone and asked for help. She provided $6,000 seed money. The Richstone Family Center, named in her honor, was established with the mission of providing counseling for children and their families in a holistic approach. Bea Richstone served as a founding member of the board and served for many years.

Elaine Struhl, M.A.

Healer; Set the standard for excellence as Clinical Director for 18 years.

Elaine Struhl worked as one of the original counselors at the Manhattan Beach location and shortly thereafter became the Clinic Director. Elaine led the professional staff for 18 years until her retirement in 1995.  

Dorothy Courtney described Elaine as “steady as a rock in focusing on the needs of the children and their parents and with a heart unfettered by bias. She reviewed, assigned, and followed each case with a surgeon’s discipline and skill. Her personal standard of excellence has permeated Richstone’s fabric and challenged each of us to reach for a higher level of performance.”

Howard Higholt, M.D.

Foundational Support; acquired the land to provide Richstone a home.

Radiologist and Board member Howard Higholt and his family acquired the original property on Cordary Avenue in Hawthorne and leased the space to Richstone at a reduced rate.   In August 1979, Richstone moved into the small home on the front of the lot with an old chinchilla barn in the back. In 1981 student volunteers from the Southern California Regional Occupational Center (SCORC) renovated the barn doubling Richstone’s space and allowing for expanded services. 

The property would ultimately become Richstone’s permanent home. Following a successful capital campaign in 1984, Richstone acquired the property from Dr. Higholt. He remained a committed Richstone supporter throughout his life and he served on the board for many years.

Dorothy Courtney

Transformational Leader; Executive Director for 24 years, positioned Richstone for growth and permanence.

Dorothy Courtney spotted a classified ad in the paper for the Executive Director Role. While she had volunteered with organizations that addressed domestic violence and child abuse, she had no direct experience managing a non-profit. Undaunted, she applied for the job. At the interview, Board President Dr. Sanders asked why Richstone should hire her. Dorothy, knowing the challenges, replied, “Because you need me.” The Board took a chance that paid off for Richstone and its clients.

Dorothy led Richstone as the Executive Director for 24 years. Over that time, the programs, services, staff, and budget expanded and evolved to address the client’s needs.  Successful capital campaigns in 1984 and 1993 led to the acquisition of the original property, the adjacent lot, and the building of an expanded facility.  

Dorothy’s legacy includes the development of lasting community relationships and the recruitment of hundreds of volunteers serving as Board members, fundraisers, supporters, on-site volunteers, and advocates for Richstone and the prevention and treatment of child abuse. These legions of volunteers include Dorothy’s husband, Bob, their children Colleen Cole, Jake Courtney, Mary Burke and Erin Courtney and each of their families.   Dorothy remains actively involved and is serving as the honorary chair of the 50th Anniversary campaign.

Barbara Bowman

Volunteer #1; Answered the call to help. Chaired first fundraising event.

In 1980, Barbara Bowman was invited to attend an event where Richstone’s Executive Director Dorothy Courtney spoke about the Center’s treatment program for victims of child abuse and its immediate need to secure private funding to serve its clients.  

Barbara wanted to find out more and drove from Palos Verdes to Hawthorne to attend a meeting at Richstone.  As the meeting drew to a close, Dorothy asked whether anyone in the room of 40 people had any ideas on how to raise the needed funds.  Barbara alone raised her hand. 

Barbara pitched the idea of doing a fashion show with costumes by the famous Hollywood costume designer Edith Head.  Barbara had a contact and she would reach out.  The contact came through and Barbara chaired Richstone’s inaugural fundraising event with Edith Head herself introducing the famous costumes modeled by Richstone volunteers.  The event was a success raising over $30,000 and enabled Richstone to keep its doors open.  

Barbara continued to raise her hand time after time for Richstone. In the 1980’s Barbara Chaired or Co-Chaired a series of successful fundraising events including, Celebrate the Fifties: Summer Love Premiere Event, and the Razzle Dazzle Round-up.  Barbara has served Richstone in many capacities over the years including as a Board member. It will be no surprise that she has raised her hand again to serve on the 50th Anniversary Gala Committee.  She looks forward to seeing you there. 

Al Villasenor

Al Villasenor was introduced to Richstone in 1984 by his friend and counselor Joi Neri.  Spanish speaking volunteers were needed to help with child care when parents attended parenting classes.  Joi asked Al to help and he signed up.  Al saw the program needed sports equipment and games; Al donated them.  It was just the start to his decades of service to Richstone.

Al joined the Board of Directors in 1985 serving as Board President from 1991-1994.  In that role, he led the 1993-1994 capital campaign and the completion of the Jim Murray Building.  As Al’s family wrote when he passed away in 2018, “throughout his years of service Al had made Richstone first in his heart, always bringing new people and new resources to contribute to Richstone’s efforts to heal children and their families.”

His legacy of generosity to Richstone lives on through his children who continue to support Richstone today. 

Helen Ristani

Helen Ristani was an early supporter of Richstone and has continued this support over four decades.  Helen, a Manhattan Beach businesswoman, has always been ready and willing to help with whatever was needed. She has consistently and generously supported Richstone’s many fundraising events including volunteering on The Affair of the Heart committee and participating in the annual golf tournaments and Pier-to-Pier Walk-a-thon.  Helen embodies the community’s commitment to the well-being of children which has kept Richstone’s doors open for 50 years.

Paul and Kay Conrad

Kay Conrad stepped up to host one of Dorothy Courtney’s first meet and greets to introduce people to Richstone in1980. Kay invited her friend Barbara Bowman to attend. Barbara would go on to Chair Richstone’s first fundraising event, the 1981 Edith Head fashion show. Kay’s husband, Paul Conrad, the Los Angeles Times Pulitzer prize-winning political cartoonist, and Dorothy’s husband Bob served as the auctioneers for this inaugural event.

Paul and Kay, along with Don & Danese Maldonado and Barbara Saltzman, were instrumental in securing Los Angeles Times support for Richstone throughout the 1980s. In 1983 the LA Times produced the first of many multi-page supplements featuring articles and photos about Richstone raising awareness to the issue of child abuse and the need for treatment and prevention and elevating Richstone’s profile in the community.  

Over the years, Paul generously put his pen to paper to create original drawings for events including the 1st Carita’s dinner honoring Jim Murray in 1992 and Dororthy’s retirement in 2004. The Conrads provided support in many ways, including hosting an event at their home featuring an auction of art and cartoons by Paul and other notable cartoonists.  

Richard and Janie Crane

Richard P. and Janie Crane have logged over 40 years as Richstone volunteers.  Janie served on the Event Committee for Caritas Award dinners in the 1990s and joined the Board of Directors in 1994.  Meanwhile, Richard created and led the popular and successful golf tournament “The Bubsy” (based on Bob Courtney’s nickname) held annually at El Dorado in Reno Nevada. 

In 1996 the Cranes established The Todd Maxfield Crane Endowment in memory of their son who overcame obstacles and developed into an outstanding, caring young man, college student and a member of the US Mountain Rescue Team. These funds help the children at Richstone to overcome obstacles in their lives.  The Crane’s generosity has continued through today including serving on Richstone’s 50th Anniversary Honorary Committee. 

Tom and Dianne Harrington

Tom and Dianne Harrington

Tom and Dianne Harrington got involved with Richstone in the early 1980’s and have supported Richstone in many capacities over the last 4 decades.

With a background in early childhood development, in the 1990s Dianne coordinated the Positive Parenting Center with Lynn Messenger and taught parenting classes funded by Beach Cities Health District.

Tom was an initial member of Men for Richstone with Jerry Mook and Tom Malone.  The group  put on early fundraising events including the first wine-tasting event and several golf tournaments. In 1994 Tom and Dianne served together on the event committee for the 1950s Prom fundraiser. 

In 1998 Tom co-chaired the annual golf tournament with Roger Van Remmen, Richstone’s future CEO and took on the chair role from 2001- 2002.  The Harrington’s support for Richstone has been a family endeavor, in 2003 their son Michael became co-chair of the golf tournament with Bob Courtney’s son Jake.

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Our Story Started in 1974

Richstone Family Center founded at the Hawthorne YMCA by Dr. Wyman Sanders using $6,000 in seed money from Bea Richstone.
While serving seven families, including 17 children, the staff four teachers and educational therapists moves in to a rented space at Manhattan Heights Elementary School. Services included pre-school classes, mother-infant-toddler group, and parenting skills. State of California awards Richstone a grant as one of the first six child abuse treatment and prevention programs in the state — this enabled Richstone to become a comprehensive agency providing services to approximately 70 families a year.
Richstone moves into Hawthorne house on Cordary Avenue.
Richstone recognized as a neighborhood family center by ICAN (Los Angeles County Inter-agency Council on child Abuse and Neglect as programs expand to include individual and family therapy, 24-hour crisis hotline, and 24-hour nursery. Dorothy Courtney hired as Executive Director.
Edith Head Fashion Show, chaired by Barbara Bowman, raises $30,000 to support Richstone’s expanding programs.
Now funded by individuals, organizations, industry, and United Way, Richstone continues to expand as they serve more than 100 families.
Richstone’s Facility dedicated
Transitional Living program for young women emancipated from foster care launches
Grand Opening of the Everychild Foundation Healing Center
Richstone Family Center celebrates 50 years of serving this community.

We couldn't have done it without our Heart Menders. Thank you for 50 great years!